Of Men and Women

From Of Men and Women (New York: John Day Company, 1941).

"[C]urriculum subjects in themselves will have to be revised. History, for example, has always been taught as the work of man. When woman appears in it she is either a queen, of little practical use, or a rebel smashing up furniture or praying in saloons. The truth has never been told about women in history: that everywhere man has gone woman has gone too, and what he has done she has done also. Women are ignorant of their own past and ignorant of their own importance in that past. In curiosity a few months ago I asked a haphazard score of women of my acquaintance if they had heard of Elizabeth Cady Stanton. Only one had even heard her name, and she had no recollection of more. Yet only a generation ago Elizabeth Cady Stanton was called the greatest woman in the United States, and by some the greatest in the world. If women are as ignorant as this of themselves they can scarcely expect men to know more. But if the aim of education is to be enlightening of men and women about each other, of course history must be taught truthfully about both, and truthfully rewritten.

Psychology, as another example, should be taught with definite consideration of mental differences between men and women, with though given and research made over a space of time as to whether such differences are based upon physiology or environment, and whether they are permanent. There should be anxiety to prove nothing between men and women, but merely to discover the truth about each other. This new education of men and women for each other would remove the tedious rivalry which now poisons so much of the relationship between the sexes. Women need not be anxious to prove themselves superior to men, nor eager to prove all women inferior to men because they fear they themselves are inferior. And men need not be anxious to prove themselves superior to all women out of the fear that they are not. It will be taken for granted that such superiorities and inferiorities are to be found only in individuals and that no one is doomed by sex.